Adoption Day!

Well, I am finally sitting down to update this blogsite. It is really difficult to be able to carve in some quality time to do it! Today, I was just impelled because it was a very special day. Today, Uma Akriti became legally ours in the eyes of the United States and the state of California. In doing so, she also became a US citizen and will now have a US birth certificate, with our names as her parents.
Under Indian law, we are able to remove her from the country as her legal guardians, but then we must readopt her here. This process required 4 post placement visits, another comprehensive report by a social worker, more paperwork and several visits to the courthouse. Finally, we had the date, which was today. It feels like such a life changing and significant week, with our completing 10 months together with Uma, Obama winning the elections and now, Uma's final adoption.
Alot has happened since my last update. Uma got to meet her paternal grandparents who came to visit us this summer. She quickly bonded with my mother-in-law, and now recognizes them by name, "Jeena" (her grandmother) and "Jeeta" (her grandfather) when she sees their photos.
Her speech is really coming along and she is now using verbs and can answer many questions. She never ceases to amaze us with her sharp mind and memory! She observes everything and files it somewhere in her mind. As a result, she recognizes places, remembers where the car is parked (even when the adults don't!) and remember where daddy placed his cell phone the night before so that when he is looking for it, she quickly is able to retrieve it for him. And should he accidently walk out the door without it, she grabs it and gives it to him as he is leaving - so thanks to Uma, Adhipen never forgets his cell phone anymore.
She has become extremely affectionate and friendly. She says "hi" and "bye" when she passes people in the street - a phenomenon that most adult Angelinos hardly ever do. But she is exceptionally affectionate to me. She literally kisses my hands, sits on my lap and strokes my cheeks and loves to curl up in my arms at night before bed. When Adhipen or I come home, she runs up and flings herself in our arms - the utter joy at being with us is almost overwhelming. I cannot remember the last time I felt such utter abandoment of happiness. She has alot to teach us.
For a while, she was having an intensive therapy (6 hours a week) to help her catch up with her skills, such as learning colors. We discontinued that after they wanted to move from our home to a school setting - it just felt too much, and now Uma and I sit together with skill building. I cannot believe how quickly she learns at my tutoring. She wants so much to please me that she tries much harder than I have ever seen her try with anyone else. I went out the other day and bought a whole bunch of learning tools so that I can gently play and teach at the same time.
We are getting ready to take another trip to Washington DC. My friend Crystal has her newborn son, Mark, now and as always, we want to see Neha and the kids. I have also made a new friend through adoption that I want to meet.
There is so much more to say, but I only have 3 minutes until midnight, and I very much want this post dated on November 6, 2008 - one of the most significant days of our life.
I will really make an effort to update more often. Until next time...